۱۳۸۶ تیر ۲۸, پنجشنبه

Is your woman cheating you? Part 2

>>On the little time she spends with you she gets “over focused” <<

Before you even open your mouth she turns the table on you. That crazy blabber jukebox has run out of records and now she just listen to what you have to say.
When you start asking question, she gets almost monosyllabic- It ́s all about “you” and “you” and “only you” rather than “i did this” or “i was here last night”. She doesn't wanna step into any of her lies, that is why she carefully listens to everything you say!

>>She is showering you with gifts as a part of covering her tracks. <<

The best way to lie is to act upon it. She will give you “i love you” cards out of the blue, and might even offer you to wash your car, dinner for you and your friends and pay for the beer. You stupidly think that all these are sweet gestures, when they are nothing but an overcompensating behavior that can only make everything even more suspicious. If you get flooded by niceties, you might want to know what is really going not, and usually is not that good.

>>She picks fights quickly if confronted about even the dumbest things. <<

The days were you both could communicate in pace and harmonious precision are long gone. Every time you confront her, every sentiment that you express sets her of, and there is always a good excuse to lash out at you. Does this situation
sounds familiar? She is subconsciously trying to justify her dirty little tryst. By nagging you when confronted she eliminates some of all of her nagging guilt. If she starts to burst out of this confronting situations and she attacks you and points out your every flaw, push the “cheater alarm” button and get to the bottom of what is going on.

>>Her new "friend" <<

A telltale sign that your wife / girlfriend / partner is cheating arises when a mysterious friend inches their way into the picture. Could be co-worker, or an old friend from "way back," she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to
share any general details about them, much less introduce you. And it doesn't take a Ph.D. to figure out why.

>>She refuses to answer simple questions<<

Anyone who refuses to answer even the simplest and fairest of questions is without a doubt hiding something. Also if she answers questions only after repeating them back to you (indicating that she is searching her brain for a good lie lie). Be wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks, "Why do you want to know what time I left the pub?" If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, there is a good chance that she is hiding something.. or someone.

>>Breaks the routine extremely often<<

Once she gets involved in a hot and heavy romance elsewhere, you have to be a plant not to feel any shift in her daily priorities. All of the sudden, there no more implied dates, like “Sunday afternoon movies” or “Pasta Fridays at Benito ́s”.
Something else “got on the way” or “comes up”. There is a tendency for most philanderers to schedule their meetings with her new “thing” or “flame” as often as they can be, with a complete disregard from previous engagements.

>>Sexual relationship is completely gone<<

And this is a KEY factor. If she is still with you, but she won ́t have ANY SEX, not even spooning in the nude, turn on the “cheat siren” and start reading the writing on the wall. She is either with you because she got used to it, she is in it for the
money or you have terminal Cancer and she is the sole beneficiary of your will. Once the sex has stopped, it is more likely that she is getting it from someone else.

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